Allies in Healing

"But what about me?" "Is it possible to go one day without dealing with the survivor's issues?" "Will we ever make love again?" "Will the survivor love me in the end?" "How do I know if I should throw in the towel?" Based on in-depth interviews and her workshops for partners across the country, Laura Davis offers practical advice and encouragement to all partners-girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses, and lovers-trying to support the survivors in their lives while tending to their own needs along the way. She shows couples how to deepen compassion, improve communication, and develop an understanding of healing as a shared activity. Addressing partners' most important questions, Allies in Healing covers: * The Basics-answers common questions about sexual abuse. * Allies in Healing-introduces key concepts of working and growing together. * My Needs and Feelings-teaches partners to recognize, value, and express their own needs. * Dealing with Crisis-includes strategies for handling