Psychology of Adult Spanking, Vol. 3, Crying Real Tears

The question is, how do we get there? The problem is, that adult spanking, as opposed to childhood punishment, is intertwined with sexual feelings and sensuality. Spanking interactions are about intimacy and fun. So why in the world would adult spanking fetishists want to cry while being spanked? Why would they want to taint this sexual arousal? The answer is simple, and not so simple. Spanking is a complex and emotionally laden fetish. On the surface, adult spanking is about getting turned on. However, on a deeper level the adult spanking fetish sometimes heals wounds or trauma from childhood. Jacqueline Omerta a licensed Marriage Family Therapist and adult spanking fetishist talks about the deep, emotional relief attained when real crying accompanies spanking. Once tears are shed, the spankee experiences a sense of relief that leads to life-altering change. Ms. Omerta illustrates her point by spanking a woman who