This is Not a Pity Memoir

. . impossible to put down'' RACHEL COOKE, Observer ''The kind of book you will find yourself saying urgently, over and over, to friends: ''Have you read it?'' CAITLIN MORAN ''Gripping, funny and always honest'' DAVID NICHOLLS ''Extraordinary . . . utterly compelling and so honestly told'' NIGELLA LAWSON ''Truly breathtaking. I could not have loved it more'' CAREY MULLIGAN ________________________ An ordinary day. The end of ordinary life. One morning in June, Abi had her to-do list - drop the kids to school, get coffee and go to work. Jacob had a bad headache so she added ''pick up steroids''. She returned home and found the man she loved and fought and laughed with for twenty years lying on the bathroom floor. And nothing would ever be the same again. But this is not a pity memoir. It''s about meeting your